This may be my most generic post ever, but there are certain details that are just not mine to share. I want to be respectful of our birthmom, and so I'm not going to share as much as I usually do.
As you may know, we've been in the middle of a very bizarre situation for the past 14 months. We had offered to take temporary custody of CJ's half-brother for a short period of time (at the request of his birthmom). He was born in February 2013 and while I was there just after he was born, we did not end up bringing him home. We went through a variety of bumps, hills, and valleys along the way and ultimately never did get custody.
Last week, we were informed that the state of Arizona has closed our case. This means that we are no longer an option for taking custody of CJ's brother.
Friends and family have asked how we feel about things. I can honestly say that I feel ok with where we are right now. I spoke with CJ's birthmom a few weeks ago, and that conversation helped me to see that she is in a much better place right now. Part of me is still a little disappointed in the time, effort and money that we invested in the process, but I trust that the Lord is still working in this situation.
We are trying to figure out God's plan for us at this point. As we make decisions about our family, I'll let you know. :)
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Thinking of you so often as you continue this journey. It is never an easy one, but the final destination is sooo worth it! Keeping you in our prayers!
ReplyDeleteI pray (and know) that that child and birthmom are blessed by your love and willingness to be family in an additional way. I'm sorry that this didn't work out the way you'd hoped, and I pray that all will be well for the little one.
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Wow! You guys have certainly been on a roller coaster ride. As sad as it is, I am glad you finally have an answer so you are not stuck in limbo anymore. You have been a part of CJ's brother's life, and whereas you did not get to take him home, I imagine that his life and your family has been enriched as a result. Praying for you as you try to determine the path God has in mind for you.
ReplyDeleteThanks ladies! I appreciate the prayers and support! This process was definitely the polar opposite of our experience with CJ's adoption, but it has taught us a lot!
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