Relationships and Resources

Last week's class was great because we finally had an opportunity to get to know everyone a little better. Usually, this class is scheduled for the third week of the course, but they had to move things around. I can understand why the class is so helpful early on; it really helped to build some connections within our group. We went around the table, and each couple talked about the path that led them to adoption. It was so interesting to hear how everyone had gotten to this point. It is a little sad that we are coming up on our last class, and haven't really developed any relationships within the group. I have a feeling that we will see these couples again in the future. If nothing else, this process has built relationships with other people we know who are hoping to adopt as well.

I do hope to develop friendships with others who adopt so that we have a support network that understands what we have been through, and what we are going through (especially after we are placed with a child). While everyone's experience is different, it will be nice to have a reference point. I've started reading books about adoption, but they are as stress-inducing as the "What to Expect" type books for pregnancy. As I read them, I have to remember that they are one person's opinion, and often focus on the worst-case scenario. I have gotten some good ideas and information, but I am trying not to put too much stock in them. If anyone knows of any good book about adoption, please let me know.

It is hard to believe that we are already at the end of our classes (tonight is the last one!). It seems like just yesterday that we requested an information packet from the agency. As we complete each step in the process, we get a little more excited. We just keep praying that God gives us patience, and peace, as move a little closer to a placement.